33, social worker, feminist, and avid learner. From Newfoundland, one of the most beautiful provinces, and sometimes one of the most kind. This tumblr thing is kind of new to me even though I've been doing it for awhile now. One of the things I love is that I feel more free to be me here and not feel so apologetic. I've been married for 8 years, and together for 9, sometimes it blows my mind we've been together this long and other times it feels like forever ;) but in a good way!Send me your questions! Submit
"derp/herp derp" is ableist stop fucking using it, it is a term that originated with making fun of kids with down syndrome and being like "ha ha derp face:-P" and it has been used against disabled people for so long after that, please stop using it, get mad at people that do use it, please
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This blog is against 50 Shades of Grey and sees it for what it truly is: glorification of abuse on women and literal trash
Isn’t it about BDSM not abuse? Can someone clarify??
It is written from the author’s perspective that its BDSM however many in the community are upset that it is connected with BDSM because of how the main character treats his partner. He violates her boundaries, makes it all about his sexual gratification, he is manipulative and often uses sex as a weapon. To me this is not what BDSM stands for.
I’ve read the books and am still wondering how they’re going to make a movie out of this, but while the sex scenes may be ‘hot’ it stands out that it is still about Christian Grey. A coworker told me that the author wrote it from the perspective of her as Anastasia and Edward Cullen/Robert Patterson. Ick. That just turned my stomach totally.